If you manage to get through all the comments, Kate steps up with some excellent "zingers" should we working moms be faced with judgemental comments.
Why not just create for yourself a whole bag of zingers, so that if someone says "you work? it's bad for your kids" (or whatever) you look them straight in the eyes and say "Yes, it was a condition of my parole."
"OH, my children get really good grades, I make sure the homework is always turned in, but I have the time to do that since I am a stay-at-home mom. That is my job." -> suggested response: "Oh my God. You sound awesome. I wish you were MY wife!" (bonus points if you leer.)
May or may not be the Kate of "change your medication levels" we know and love. So here' s my problem. While I have a feeling I'd never be able to throw these out in the heat of moment, I'd love the opportunity to try. And if that fails, at least I'll have something to blog about. But alas, either the people around me are too nice, keeping their opinions to themselves, or I'm completely unaware of the rash judgement going on. So come on, lay it on me.